If points of view are different, then acceptance is required.
In my little thoughts , I came across a situation recently in which me and my other colleagues were talking about some topic, and after some time, it became serious, and two of them started arguing with each other because they were trying to convince the other one to accept their point of view.
If we see it's just a normal sentence, but just like me, many others know that this is not a normal conversation. Because if we don't give heed to these types of topics, then it becomes serious with the passage of time.
I am saying this because sometimes it takes a toll on someone's mental health. If it is like that and we have a habit of always preferring our thinking ,our knowledge, and always giving importance to what we are saying. It leads to us having inferiority complexes and jeleous nature when someone doesn't give us importance or if someone's idea is better than ours, so we overthink it and, instead of acceptance, we start hating other people and pointing out others' mistakes. And sometimes a person can become depressed because of constantly thinking about someone or something. In this situation, a person becomes hopeless and, instead of thinking to make himself better, he starts to plot to degrade others. Because of this situation of aggression, a person starts to commit crimes and become a criminal. which he doesn't want to become if he is in the right mind of state.
Accepting nature is crucial for us because no one can be perfect except Allah.
Allah created each one to be unique in every way. We can't compare each other just for silly excuses or our own satisfaction. Because in this world, every day we learn and do new things. And it is not necessary to accept and agree with us.
What is conflict ?
A verbal expression used to express extreme disagreement with someone on something. which converts to fights, negativity, and misunderstandings between opponents.
Why do we have conflicting points of view?
Because we live in a world with many different countries, religions, castes, values, traditions, languages, and habits . So when people from different regions with different cultures and different behaviours mingle with each other and share their points of view, some agree and some disagree ,and in this situation, if someone shows disagreement, it doesn't mean that he doesn't have explosure or sense or ability to think about what is right or wrong. It is because he or she or any other person will talk to you according to their life experiences, their hurdles, and their journey through life with their traditions and cultures , which are part of their life . So, when their living standards differ, so do their thoughts.
But it becomes a conflict when they don't accept each other with everything that is related to them. when they don't respect the difference . The distinction is not based on cast, religion, or tradition, but on his individuality and uniqueness. Because we are all distinct in our identity, unique personality, and behavior. When they don't respect each other in the first place , then they definitely can't respect their thoughts, religion, beliefs, values, and traditions. because these are all adaptable, but someone's personality is not. Someone's thoughts are not . When we understand this difference, then definitely there will be no conflicts and fights. There will only be agreement or disagreement with respect to each other.
how to resolve conflict? and be acceptable.
I only suggest you become an acceptable person for any change in any situation. Start talking to others. Concentrate don't praise yourself ,start praising others. Leave the thought that "I am perfect" because you are not, and no one is. If you don't like anything, then leave it ,but if you really want to change, then talk to them in a friendly way and give them advice. Don't be harsh if they don't agree. If not, then don't interfere after that. Must learn to give respect to other opinions.
Instead of fighting with someone to get them to agree with you, tell them, "It's okay, you are unique in your own way, and I am, and I appreciate that."
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Everyone has their own thinking and I respect that"
If anyone gives you any advice that is beneficial to you, then take it without hesitation. Leave that hesitation factor behind and accept it. Don't forget to thank those who are the reason for your success communicate with others without being judgemental it will you boost to become acceptable.
From other people's experiences, I learned that "forgetting and letting go of the pride factor that you know everything" are the best things.
Try to remove the factors of "I,ME, MINE", then see if you will be at ease. You will see when you remove these factors your personality gives anew version of your self and this better version does better changes in you ,your relationships become better with each passing day because no one i force other to do and agree according to his/her choice and it make many change in every aspact of your life, you become a easier person and if anyone was suffering from any depressing state it stars recovering.
repeat this every day that I will do better than yesterday and I can do it, instead of saying that you are perfect and don't make mistakes. It is totally wrong because we are all humans and humans make mistakes.
So make mistakes, learn, and try to do better .
Take care, and I'll see you soon.
many blessings to you
By My Little Thoughts.