Decision-making Power Is A Quality That We Need.

Decision-Making Power is a quality that we need.




In my little thoughts journey, I was mostly challenged by this single statement. I know, just like me, many others think that it's just a simple about-to-take decision, so why give hype to this, but in reality, when you come across a difficult situation, sometimes you are unable to do justice to yourself and others because of your bad decisions.

In other words, if we talk about decision-making power, it is simply a sentence without any wait, but in reality, when you are in a situation when you need to decide or make a decision, it takes more than needed time if you are weak in this, because not everyone has the quality to make the right decision at the right time . You need to think wise and accurately without taking any side, being neutral.

It doesn't matter to those who don't care about anything, but those who do definitely pay heed to their keenness so that they should not regret it later.

Life is not just a simple and easy thing in which you can pass every moment in a pinch of a second because every second we are doing something and it is definitely related to your decision which you have taken for yourself.

Sometimes, because of our lack of attention, we lose major life-changing opportunities by not taking the right decision at the right time, and seriously, most of you will relate to me that after deeply regretting that.

what is decision making capacity?

An ability of a person by using that he can make or take any decision financially ,emotionally.physically,and mentally.

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A thought of process which he implement to make it in action to show visibly. 

Why it is necessary ?

A decision making capacity helps him to take risks,trust himself in any situation in which he thinks that he can't do anything.

This ability makes a person eye-candy to others if he takes his decisions wisely. 

It is necessary for a person to survive in this world. So he needs to know that when and what he does?

Why do we lack this quality? And what do we need to do for this?

My experience has taught me that the root of this lack of quality begins in childhood. When in childhood, a child is always dependent on their parents for everything and always looks for them for everything. I'm not saying that a two-year-old can do everything on his own; rather, when the child reaches the stage of learning and understanding, parents begin teaching him to do various things, learn books, poems, and everything else they believe is necessary for him, but in the rush of teaching and learning everything and deciding everything for him, they forget to ask their child what he likes to eat in order to force him to eat everything by saying .

It is just a simple way to ask them, "What will my baby eat for his/her healthy breakfast, which will make my baby strong."

It is just a simple thing for you, but for your child it is a big thing that you gave him the confidence to have something of his own choice. It will give him confidence to make these little choices like choosing a colour to wear, food to eat, a game to play, or a thing to learn. It not only gives him confidence, but it also gives him trust in you .It will help him to become friendly with you and take your advice if he is lacking in something ,because he knows that instead of forcing him to make any decision, you will listen to him and will show him the right path. If the root is strong, then the branches grow wider ,but if the root is not strong, then it becomes weaker by the passage of time.

You can't expect a person who hasn't made a single decision on their own to justify their major life decisions, and it's parents' responsibility to give them their trust and their choices. We all know that we can't live forever, and you, or any other person, can always take a decision for another. Instead of blaming, give them the freedom to make their own choices, to learn from their own experiences, and to guide them if they are wrong any where,  

It helps you to grow.

I saw a person who has the confidence and self-trust to make decisions and take risks. They are more successful nowadays than others because you can't be dependent on anyone your whole life . You should know how to make decisions. When you know this, so you start trusting yourself, which is necessary because if you can't trust yourself to make decisions on your own, then you can't get to a high place. So help yourself to grow by trusting yourself and taking a risk I know you can't be right every time, but if you do something wrong, you will learn what to do to make it better.

Confidence and decision-making not only aid in overall growth, but they also aid in strength and courage not to run away from a situation . Everyone should know how to fight back. Life is short and we are temporary in this world, so it gives you an open message that you can't be dependent on anyone your whole life.

Be a role model to others.

You should know how to live your life and how to make decisions for yourself. Hmm, but it doesn't mean you will neglect your elders if they give you some advice by just saying, "We are big enough to make our own decisions." No, because we are humans and humans do make mistakes. You can not guarantee yourself that you will only take the right decisions. It can't be possible. As a result, it is sometimes preferable to take some advice from anyone who you think will show you the right path if you are in a situation where you need advice. Because everything has a first time, and you need guidance on your first attempt. It doesn't lower your quality but makes the situation easier for you. In any case, if you face a similar situation in the future, you will know what to do .

Be brave and pass on your confidence to someone who looks up to you, and teach him how to be firm and trust your decision or anything else. So he will not regret losing something which he doesn't want to by not taking the right decision at the right time.


take care, see you soon,

many blessings to you.

                                                                                                         by My Little Thoughts, 

 


 


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