Is the distance between us and our love ones really occupied?
In my little thoughts, the thought that comes across my mind is about the situation I faced a few weeks ago. It is basically a family gathering. I met my cousin who lives in the Middle East, and he came after 3 years, so all the family went to meet him. When I met them, I realised that we had a huge distance between us. That situation made me realise that we are not only distanced from those who are not with us, but also from those who are living with us.
In the name of technology, we can connect to anybody or everybody with whom we want to talk if we have any gadget beside us. It can be Mac, Apple, Android, Vivo, Oppo, or any other brand or any other gadget we own. It doesn't make any difference if we are not responsible for our relationships. If we can't figure out that anybody who is related to us in any way is in need, it makes me realise that we have been too involved in our careers and other things that we don't even know about. Sometimes, if we want to connect with somebody, we will connect them to Europe. But if not, then we also don't know about our roommate.
In all this chaos, I realise that because of easy access to anything or anyone, if he lives far away and we want to contact him, we will. but we don't have time to share our problems with our parents or siblings.
I'm not sure if you will relate to me on this point or not, but I believe that we are just cheating ourselves and others in the name of busy lives and the desire to own an expensive gadget or anything else that we can showoff to others. I'm not saying that everybody is doing the same thing, but most definitely do.
In this situation, the other thing that also occurs that damages is that in the name of easy accessing or making connectivity, we have mostly lost the most loyal relations from our lives, but we don't pay heed to that issue because we are so busy making new friends, which only remain for a few weeks.
What do you think about giving priority to relationships? Why is it necessary to prioritise your relationships?
I think to make these relationships successful we need to put them on our priority list. Because when we give something priority in our lives, we make every effort to make it successful, and for relationships, you need to know this. If you can't prioritise your relationships in your life, you can't be successful in your life. Because at every point of our lives, we are related to someone, as if your family ,friends,cousins,relatives, neighbours, colleagues, or anything. So you can't always escape by giving the reason that you were busy. Priority is the thing which makes you realise that someone is important to you and is waiting for you to respond. which tells you that someone is here for you and for someone. you.
Is priority the reason for our unsuccessful relationships?
For me it is a yes, because in this era, if we are in a close relationship or a long-distance relationship, it doesn't matter because we can be close too if we are not physically present for each other by using digital networks and we can be far too if we are physically present . So it completely depends on your priority of what value your relationships have in your life and how much they matter to you, because if you can't prioritise your relationships, there's no way you'll be able to make them successful. Because when we prioritise someone in our life, we know about his/her well being, we care for them,we take time for them, it doesn't matter how busy we are . We know that to give someone importance and show them that we are thankful to them for being a part of our lives.
How can we make our relationships successful?
By giving priority to them You can be present for them even if you are unable to be physically present for them by responding to their call.Or just send them a message saying "good morning"?
By asking them if they had breakfast or not?
Are they feeling good or not?
Or by sending them a message that you love them.
by reminding them to take care.
By saying to them that you need them ,you love them, and are grateful for their being there for you. for being patient with you . and being available for you.
Now you have a time , realize your priorities and make them them successful, so you can be guilt free before it's too late.
Take care , see you soon.
Many blessing to you.
By my little thoughts.