Don't be stubborn: Stubbornness leads You Nowhere.
I literally cried because of seeing them. Sometimes these situations take you to a depressed condition.
don't be stubborn: it makes the situation worse.
Stubbornness is not good for your own health as well as others' too. Sometimes people's stubbornness about their decisions breaks other people very badly. I am saying this because I have already faced this situation and, believe me, it takes you to a severe breakdown . I felt so helpless at that time because I had no authority to do any thing .I cried for days because I felt helpless to help those who were suffering as a result of other decisions.
And at one point, it gave an actual reality check that everyone, literally everyone, who is related to you becomes selfish for their own reasons. And from this, I learnt that if they can be selfish for their own benefits, forcefully implying their decision, then why can't I be one for myself? I'm not suggesting getting into fights, but rather doing small things for your own happiness. After this, I always try to do the things I like without doing any harm to others. And please, I am requesting that you do not make any decisions which lead you to severe damage or addiction. It will only worsen the situation. If you do, then this is totally a reality check to yourself that you are the person who is not important to themselves. You definitely can't be for others either.
a little advice :
This is advice from me to you here because if you don't have time to go through the whole article, then it's okay, but if you do, you will definitely think about this. I just want you to be safe and sound because sometimes you can't take a breath of relief because of your own bad decisions, and it suffocates you for the rest of your life and you can't get over your guilt.so don't be stubborn
If you are stubborn about anything that is right and benefits you without harming anyone, then it's good. Otherwise, I will only suggest you not do anything that will lead you to life-long guilt .so don't be stubborn.
Don't imply decisions forcefully; give others a chance to explain themselves.
If any parent is here, then I request you to use your authority to take decisions for your children. Then use this power tactfully. Don't force your decision on them. Talk to them. Give your back to them.
It's not just my thoughts and requests to you; it's also my experience. I don't want communication gap between you people just like me and many others. You have a chance now to utilise this to be friends with them rather than forcefully imposing your decisions. Please give a little thought to this issue.
Assure them that if they want to do anything that is right for them, then they can do it. And if it's wrong, then tell them that you are there and you will not let them fall.
and I am requesting that you don't force your decision. Don't let anything create a distance between you and your children. Make them feel as if their decisions and opinions matter to you, and be friends with them.
Don't create a generation gap. Don't interrupt them for doing anything by saying that your generation or your era was better than now. There was no doubt at that time that every single person did not have the headache of making a secure future. Not everyone need to work. There was no living standards competition. There was no race to gain money or luxury. People were happy with what they had, but in today's era, every single person is depressed because of some issue. And if parents couldn't help their children, rather than always explaining to them that their time was better ,they did many things at a time, but if one person was working day and night, then other members of the house were relieved about their finances. At that time, expenses were not much ,but now expenses are more important than life ,so rather than differentiating and forcing your decisions on them because of your stubbornness, explain to them that as my child, you don't have to worry if something wrong happens. We will help you to overcome this rather than telling them that this is not good and it will cost you damage ,so that he will not even try to learn that if in future any situation occurs, he will definitely run away thinking that the result will be negative ,not every time you can be wrong.